It’s no big secret that men love head. I mean they LOOOVE it. Some prefer it over sex. There are the very few that don’t like it at all, and I’m a firm believer that it is because they either haven’t had really good head or they’ve had a bad experience with it. Regardless, men love head and ladies, to give/get the best sexual experience you should not only give it, be good at it and enjoy doing it!
Going down on each other is part of foreplay. Foreplay warms up both bodies sexually and prepares it for intercourse. During this period, it is crucial that both parties have fully communicated what each wants and it is up to the partner to deliver. With that being said, if you don’t like giving it, don’t expect to receive it. Period. It’s not fair. If you don’t like it, try practicing with someone you trust, learn what he likes, get good at it and you’ll probably like it then. Lots of people don’t want to go down because they just don’t know what they’re doing. All I have to say is practice makes perfect! (If you think it’s nasty, perhaps some maturing would suffice.)
When giving head, always keep in mind these basic things:
- If you don’t want to be down there, he’ll know and it won’t be fun for either of you. Get out of your head and enjoy it for what it is. He does the same to you!
- Get into it. Men are visual and if they see you having a good time with their fellow they’re going to cum faster and associate YOU with good head. And that’s NOTHING to be ashamed about. Give him a show!
- Make use of both your hands and mouth, even your breasts if you want to have some fun! ;)
- Just like our clit is a great companion with our vagina, so is a man’s scrotum with his penis. Do not ignore that, it is a huge part of a great oral sex for a man. Whether you’re ballsy enough to put them in your mouth or just cup them, they want you to pay some attention to it, so keep that in mind!
Now, in general most men just want you to put their dick in your mouth, to speak quite frankly, but the last thing you want to do is just go down and put it in your mouth. Don’t be lame. Make his dick your bitch. You own it, you’re in control of it and you decipher when it can cum. Got it? If you feel that going down on a guy makes you less of a person or you feel inferior, just keep in mind that his penis, the thing that makes him a man, is in your mouth…with teeth, and the last thing he wants to do is have you use them. So use it to your advantage but of course, have fun with it, play with it, tease it. I can go on forever on little things you can do to make giving head enjoyable for you and very desirable for him but find out what peaks his sexual interest specifically. Ask him what he likes and listen to things he might say while doing it and if he grabs your hand to show you, take note!
Don’t be scared to “hurt” him either. When a man’s dick is hard, it’s hard, and almost any touch feels good to him. Grab his dick strong and firm. Now, when it gets flaccid he might feel the repercussions of how hard you might have gone, but that comes with getting practice and knowing how hard or soft to go on him, whether it be with your mouth or hands. Along with that, just like we like to be wet, so should his penis be. If you’re giving a hand job and it’s dry, believe it’ll start hurting him either then or later. Your hands and mouth should be able to slip up and down his dick, just like your vagina should. Period.
So the time is going to come, when he cums, and you have to decide what to do then. Just a quick side note, right when you feel him cumming (his penis will throb or he’ll tell you) stop the movement whether it be with your mouth or hands and wrap your hand around his base, squeeze tightly and keep it there while he cums. No need to keep going at that point, just like a guy should stop when we cum. My advice is to use your mouth of course when he cums because it could be very messy otherwise, and it’s up to you whether you want to swallow or spit. I am a firm believer that you do whatever you are more comfortable doing, although guys like it when you swallow because it’s not like they can spit out our cum anyways. But if you need to spit, just get up go spit and come back. Don’t make a fuss about it, round two should be coming soon and you don’t want to spoil the mood.
I just wanted to cover basics on giving head because I feel that women have a complex about it and we shouldn’t. We should give it, like it and know that we literally have them by the balls. There’s absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about, because let’s face it, sex isn’t meant to be pretty and perfect. It’s supposed to be dirty, sweaty and sexy.
So ladies, relax, it’s just sex! Get yours.
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