Many of you are reading the title thinking, what a dumb topic. It's common sense when a guy should insert his penis. Well if it were that common, guys wouldn't be doing it, yet I hear so many women complain about how guys just don't have the patience to get a girl wet enough to have really good sex.
Men: We all know you get hard in .2 seconds and are ready to go in a blink of an eye, but if you truly want to have good sex and make it good for the woman as well, you need to have some patience and make sure you get her really wet. I mean really wet. Just because you can slip your finger in her vagina and you feel the moistness, doesn't mean that it's wet enough for your penis. As a friend once said, "I make sure there's a waterfall coming out of her vagina before I slip my penis in."
Keyword "slip". If your dick can slip in her vagina without the help of either of your hands, she's wet enough, doesn't matter how tight or loose she is. Seriously. If you need help getting it in, she needs help getting more wet.
You may ask, if she's even a little wet, what's the big deal, it might be a tighter squeeze but it's still good for me. Well it's not good for us women because after you thrusting away for so many minutes it starts to feel very uncomfortable and sometimes even hurt. Once we feel any kind of discomfort at all, we lose the ability to STAY wet, therefore we get "dry" and makes sex not fun for either of us by then.
Now at that point, let's say you keep going and thrust away, you will cause pain for us and some women just don't say anything for whatever reason, (I'll later post about communication in bed) and she wakes up the next morning feeling like someone ripped her vagina open. Yes, it's that painful and lasts for a few days. (You can literally tear her skin and it happens quite often due to this.)
SO GUYS- reiterating...please take the time out to get the woman wet. Some might take longer than others, but we all need it regardless. However you decide to do it, just get it done. Also, using lube or spit might work for the time being as you insert, but trust, nothing works like a woman's natural cum.
I love hearing feedback, please let me know what your take is on this topic! :)
And ladies and gentleman, relax. It's just sex...
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When it comes to business the term is LOCATION, LOCATION LOCATION. I think when it comes to sex the term is FORPLAY, FORPLAY, FORPLAY. Forplay is the natural way of getting womens water works flowing. It can be anything from simply making out to oral sex and everything in between. Doesnt matter what you do just as long as your patient to hear the magic words from the lady. The magic words being,"Just fuck me already!" Cuz like she said .2 seconds and were hard so we gotta flip the power dynamic by making them want your dick more than you want their pussy. So basically guys we gotta wait til the girl is as horny as a man. After that...good sex comes as naturally as death and taxes! HOORAY FORPLAY! =]
ReplyDeleteIt's amazing how many dudes selfishly forego foreplay and just dive into boning... I mean foreplay is just as fun as the rest of it!... or is that just me? There's no better feeling than knowing that vagina is soaking wet because I'm doing my job right :)
ReplyDelete"Oh that... You know I wasn't just gonna ram it home, I was gonna ease it in inch by inch -- like a gentleman."
I have nothing else to say except... AMEN!
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